Thursday 16 February 2017

mystery solved


When my friend took her 7 year old to the doctor because of the excruciating pain he was experiencing, the doctor told her the discomfort was growing pains. If we accept that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, it stands to reason that when the retiree loses body mass there is likely to be aches and pains. While no one warns that the weeks following retirement may be plagued with anomalies of the body you should be prepared mentally, physically, psychologically and financially for the eventuality. It may be likely that the conditions existed pre-retirement but, without the distraction of work you will have more time to listen to your body. Any added stress of adjusting to retirement may also exacerbate any pre existing illnesses. The results can be traumatic. 

One day after speaking with 5 retirees and hearing the details of different ailments in varying degrees and names neither of us could pronounce or knew existed I was disconcerted and seriously thought I had contacted an amalgamation of the lot. I vowed that day I would not endure such a fate again. Hearing one lamentation per day per person is all I need as a reality check and that as much as I could, would encourage persons not to be addicted to talking about their ills but speak more of the positive things in their live. There is no mystery about why you feel the way you do. Aches and pains are a fact of life, do what you must to alleviate them but continue to live a jolly life though it may be difficult sometimes. Quit spreading gloom and doom spread love instead.

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